ALCHEMY

LOVE

3 MONTH INTIMACY DEEP DIVE COACHING PROGRAM WITH ELI BUREN AND ALEXANDRA ROXO

DEEP, WILD, HOT, TRANSFORMATIONAL LOVING:

MEET EDGES

BREAK PATTERNS

GIVE YOUR GIFTS

GO DELICIOUSLY DEEP

NOVEMBER 7th 2024 - JANUARY 23rd 2025

Enter relationship as a spiritual practice, be an artful lover, elevate your gifts and desires into sacred realms of loving....

Whether you are calling in a partner, longing to deepen your current relationship, desiring to be in practice with the opposite sex, stuck at a crossroads OR are simply longing for deeper intimacy with your whole existence...making the choice to DIVE DEEPER will begin the alchemy of OPENING something new in your life beyond what you've felt or known...

Most of us were not born into a conscious family of sacred loving...or even healthy loving.

Arriving at "healthy" loving is just one stop on the map of what is possible. Perhaps you've done hard work in therapy to get there. And yet, "healthy" and "secure" loving doesn't necessarily feel sexy, and you yearn for a deeper, wilder spark of passionate love.

Sharing your desires neatly with words to a partner doesn't compare to speaking the language of full bodied expression or the language of deep penetrating presence. You yearn for that.

You may "know" that vulnerability is magnetic, yet you walk around armored, or in your head.

You may "know" that your depth of presence is potent, but mundane life is always pulling you to the surface.

Creating and sustaining deeper intimacy and ecstatic loving requires training. But with practice anyone can enter soul nourishing and spirit burnishing realms of connection.

Whether you are single, or in relationship, come onto a journey to DEEPEN: to meet your edges in loving and relationship, transform the things keeping you stuck, and allow your desire for deeper, wilder, truer sex and intimacy to come to fruition.

HELLO DEAR ONE...

In a sea of people offering mentorship and trainings around relationship at this time we want to be clear with you as to who we are and what perspective we offer...

We are parents, longtime spiritual and embodiment practitioners, artists and lovers.

We are fiercely committed to loving in a way we didn't see modeled, and we are choosing to love and do relationship as our deepest most fierce spiritual practice and life's work.

We also have chosen to hold most of our relationship private up to this point as we sat in the cauldron and deepened into practice.

We have been living into our soul work together, making wild expansive art of our patterns, and enjoying deep heart liberation through practice.

Our relationship is a sacred dojo, a cauldron, a place for transformation and expansion. And we are inviting you to sit with us in this space, to turn up your own heat, and watch things transform.

And we feel that in the same way that you would practice to become exceptional in any art, relationship is a place where we study, train, and become masterful at the art of intimacy. Some days it is epic erotic fails and some days blissful highs. Tears. Embraces. Sometimes it is long talks. Sometimes silence that holds multitudes. Sometimes sexy, sometimes fierce, sometimes silly. Yet, always going deeper into direct relationship with breath, your beloved, and life itself.

This practice is the opposite of what society, history, and Hollywood have guided us into. And what social media perpetuates with flattened, glossy images of what "polarity" and "sacred intimacy" look like...

This path is where you know yourself at depth, in the sacred mirror of another.

It is the most beautiful gift in our lives. From this gift our daughter was born and now more than ever we believe in this path.

As the world feels more distracted and uncertain, now is the time to cultivate relationship as a sanctuary that deeply nourishes you and the wider community.

This is a coming home to a conscious love forged in the fires of something deep: mythological, archetypal, holy, raw, and timeless.

Where you move past your edges and into the wide open unknown of depth and devotion. This is a remembrance in the chambers of your heart that you know to be true, otherwise, you wouldn't be reading this.

We walk this walk every day together and believe in it deeply.

At a time when more and more hours are spent online daily, away from the intimacy and magic of gazing eye to eye, dancing together, sitting in deep ritual, ecstatic lovemaking...we are here to call you into the mystery of this human experience, and the power you have to LOVE OPEN AND AWAKE.

Alexandra and Eli

"Working with Eli is like grasping onto a zipline into depth, an exploration of my inner nature as the hair on my head is blown about by the speed at which I move through my inner experience while the thrill of self-discovery ensues. "

JOIN...

Sacred intimacy mentors and teachers, life partners, and parents, Eli and Alexandra, for a rich, heartfelt, and dynamic approach to the conversation of sacred intimacy, relationship, and polarity.

Alexandra is a bestselling author who has worked with thousands of women to open up emotionally and sensually. She brings a dynamic background of study and practice in psychodrama, embodiment, emotional expression, depth psychology, and is IFS-informed and trauma-informed. Full bio here.

Eli brings a rich practice of 20 years of experience teaching in the space of sacred intimacy, men's work, and spirituality. Eli has a long-standing mentorship with David Deida as teacher and collaborator beginning in 2004 until present, coupled with decades of practice of meditation, yoga, qigong, 6 years of mentorship and study in trauma healing and attachment. Full bio here.

“Alexandra, the fiery woman who’s dousing gasoline on my own flames, the heart who has been tender and gentle with my own, the wise stoic teacher who calls out my bullshit, the powerful voice who has lead me in a journey to myself, the silly and funny woman who has made me laugh through tears. My soul has appreciated every ounce of medicine our time together has offered.”

IN ALCHEMY OF
LOVE WE WILL
DIVE INTO...

FOUNDATIONS OF EMBODIED INTIMACY PRACTICE

Learning to soften the front surface of your body and clarify your spine
The core ingredients to a consistent solo practice + practice with a partner
How to know what youre current edge of embodied practice is in intimacy
Clear feedback from a practice partner that will shed light on your blind spots in intimacy
Developing or deepening your daily practice

HEALING, TRIGGERS and RUPTURES

Unpacking moments of trigger so you can feel into your practice and how to bring that to intimacy
How to meet what arises after an experience of deep openness and intimacy
Using your wounds as ingredients in intimacy vs avoiding them in intimacy
De-armoring your heart
Cultivating presence and capacity to feel whatever arises deeply

CREATING + SUSTAINING POLARITY

Awakening your erotic range of expression
Practicing relationship as living ritual
Embodying depth and radiance, presence and energy
Creating sacred erotic moments in mundane life that fuel you at the level of body and soul
Channeling your inner oracle
Honoring the devotion to one another and the deeper sacred thread

Program Details

☑ 10 live 2.5 hour sessions with Alexandra + Eli. On the weeks we do not have live sessions (typically the last week of the month) you will be assigned a practice to do with a partner.

Thursdays at 10 am PT / 1 pm ET / 7 pm CET.

ZOOM SESSION DATES:

November 7th, November 14th, November 21st, December 5th, December 12th, December 19th, PAUSE FOR HOLIDAYS, January 2nd, January 9th, January 16th and January 23rd.

☑ Sessions include teachings, partner and solo practices, Q&A, and spotlight coaching on the live calls with adjustments and practice feedback from Alexandra and Eli.

☑ As a participant in ALCHEMY OF LOVE you gain early access for first spots to an in-person co-ed immersion at the end of the program, JANUARY 24-26, 2025 in North central Florida. Immersion is not included in the online program. More info on this will come via email after you sign up for the online program.

☑ Practice in real-time with your partner, or a practice partner, who will provide clear feedback on how they feel you, how they don’t, what energetic imprint you leave upon them, your gifts in love and relationship, your weaknesses and much more.

JOIN US ON A 3 MONTH ADVENTURE IN BOLD LOVING, EMBODIED TRANSFORMATION, AND DIVING INTO SACRED INTIMACY IN WILD TIMES.

$1950

ENROLL NOW (Individual)

$650

ENROLL NOW (Individual Payment Plan)

3 payments completed before 11/1

$2925

ENROLL NOW (Couples)

If you need to divide this into payments, click here to email us.

"I've never experienced anything like this. I still feel so tender and raw and open and so filled up with love after working with Alexandra."

"I feel exhausted and awake. I feel more myself than I ever have. And I feel fucking unstoppable. Thank you Eli."

WHAT IS RADICAL AWAKENINGS?

A modern virtual temple space for the woman who wants to transform patterns and habits in her mind and body, connect with herself and like hearted others, and go deep within herself, getting to know who she is, and is becoming, again and again. Spiritual, creative, and sensual practices.
WHAT IS THE COST? HOW CAN I PAY?

The monthly cost is $99/month and is charged on a rolling subscription basis. This is for 4.5+ hours of live classes with coaching and support + a bank of recorded practices. If you want to pay for a yearly subscription, you get 1 month free, making the total cost $1089.00 for the year. We currently accept payments via PayPal and Credit Card (through PayPal).
IS THERE A MONTHLY THEME?

This year, rather than specific themes for every month, the virtual practice space will be more specifically tailored to the group and the types of practices that would be most nourishing for us that month based on where the group is at- more intuitive, more space for you to ask for what you need.
HOW OFTEN WILL NEW CONTENT BE RELEASED?

When you join the space, you'll have access to a fat bank of pre-recording embodiment practices and gatherings. Plus, three times a month there will be a live 90 min gathering - the recordings of these gatherings will be added to the space the day after. So you get new content 3 x a month.
WHEN ARE THE LIVE GATHERINGS?

Live gatherings will be held on three Tuesdays every month. At the start of each month, you'll receive an email with the exact dates. These calls are held at 1:00 pm PST /4:00 pm EST.
HOW LONG ARE THE LIVE CALLS?

The live gatherings last 1.5 hours.
WHAT IF I MISS A LIVE CALL?

Live attendance is not mandatory. We'll email you the next day with a follow-up on the gathering, and from within Kajabi, you'll be able to access the recordings. You can also send questions before each gathering.
I'M A MOM AND I HAVE MY KIDS WITH ME DURING THE PRACTICE TIMES, CAN I STILL ATTEND?

Of course! If you have a newborn or young kids around, but still would like to attend the live gatherings, you're more than welcome. And, if you need to nurse or care for your child during the gathering and need to turn off your camera at any time, that's absolutely fine. Just know we may be making loud sounds and may drop an f bomb or two, so you can always use an air pod if needed. ;)
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I SIGN UP?

You'll receive an email confirming your access to Kajabi, where you can login and see your course dashboard. Please note: if you sign up before Feb 1st, your Kajabi portal will appear empty, apart from a few practices that we've added for you that you can enjoy before we officially launch! From Feb 1st, you'll receive an email with instructions on how to navigate the course platform along with dates to the upcoming live gatherings.
WHAT IF I NEED TO CANCEL? AND, WHAT HAPPENS AFTER?

If you are registered on a month-to-month rolling subscription, all you need to do to cancel is head over to the billing info from your profile page. Once on the billing info section, scroll down to see your active subscriptions. Click on the membership you want to cancel and hover over to the right side where you should then see three small dots appear with the option to cancel. Please note, that if you want to cancel your subscription, we advise doing so a day, at the latest, before your subscription is up for renewal. Once you cancel, your billing will stop, and your access will end. If you signed up for a yearly subscription, you can cancel up to 14 days after your payment has been made.
I HAVE SIGNED UP FOR A TRIAL, WHEN CAN I GAIN ACCESS?

If you are on a 14-day trial and have signed up before February, your access will begin on February 1st. If you cancel before the trial period is up, your access will end immediately. If you are on a 14-day trial and have signed up after February, your access will begin on the day you signed up. If you cancel after your rolling subscription has started, your billing and access will end on the date you've canceled. ie. If you signed up on Feb 5th and canceled on Feb 28th, your billing and access will end on Feb 28th.
HOW DO I CHANGE MY PAYMENT INFORMATION?

Once you're logged in, click on your profile settings, then on billing info. From here, you can see your current payment method, and modify it if needed.